What I Learned From Wearing a Mask

 Masks have not been mandatory where I live so I consider myself fortunate. However, there are many that choose to wear them. That's okay. I don't have a problem with those that choose to wear them or those that don't.  I practice distancing and good hygiene.  Keep my hands from my face.  

In my public excursions I've noticed traits that some masks wearers share.  The first is pretty obvious. Maybe you've noticed it too.  The lack of smiles. I know you're thinking that I just can't see them behind the mask, but I would beg to differ.  Smiles reach the eyes (to be real) and I haven't noticed any smiling eyes.  Many turn their heads and look away.  Forget the smile, they don't even make eye contact.  

Some mask wearers glare at those not wearing a mask. They stare and give a nod of disapproval until the rebel is out of sight.    Then they look at you to see if you'll join in their coalition.   I call this the stare down.  Usually I just smile back at them.  If I'm not masked up, I get the glare.  I guess they're trying to make me feel guilty.  It doesn't work. 

Masks tend to give some people a sense of security- not safe from the virus security- safe from people. If they're wearing a mask, they feel somewhat empowered. Braver. Invincible. Or maybe they feel invisible. Either way the result is the almost the same.  They go about their business like they are the only ones there and ignore everyone around them.  

Regardless of whether or not you are a mask wearer, we can still be kind and courteous. We can still make eye contact and smile.  Our manners don't have to be put on a shelf just because we have half of our faces hidden.  We can still help the elderly (or vertically challenged) person who can't reach an item on the top shelf.  We can still wish people a good morning or afternoon.  We can still hold the door open for others. We can still respect the opinions and feelings of others.  Even if they differ from your own. 

And that goes for anywhere that you are- not just the store.  Being respectful and kind should never be socially unacceptable. 

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